Monday, 24 September 2012

Ich habe Freunde




So I’m coming to the realisation that my life in Germany so far has turned into that Carly Ray Jenson, Call me maybe, with every person I’ve met who has any English on them, I am literally quoting the lyrics to the chorus! Although, in saying that I have gained a social life beyond the family and have somehow manage to make a friend who lives a 5 min bike ride from me! YES, SUCCESS, A FRIEND IN VOLKSDORF!! She is from Karliningrad, Russia, she can speak English but prefers to speak Deutsch. This has both its advantages and disadvantages  Yay I’m learning Deutsch and now have to use it which means I will improve! Boooo I’ve just started learning Deutsch and have very limited vocabulary and don’t understand half of the conversation! With her help and tolerance I’ll hopefully be able to contribute to a conversation in Deutsch that won’t involve me saying “Ich möchte” (I want), “Ich mag” (I like) or “Ich Kann” (I can) and hopefully there will come a time that when I say aber (but) it won’t come out sounding like A BEER! Another word fulfilling my Irish stereotype.

look, there's two beers not one! and the other isn't even mines!
                                    

In regards to my social life I have been to the Reeperbahn twice now, it is claimed to be the largest red light district in Germany! I haven’t had any experiences of red light districts before (shocking , I know) but this one seem bright and crazy enough to me. Hopefully many more fun filled experiences to be had there. Then there is the Sternschanze, it’s more a bar atmosphere with less of the glitz (aka strip bars) of the Reeperbahn and according to one of my friends, “it’s where all the cool indie kids hang out”. My first time at the Sternchanze and was a test of how poor my Irish drinking stamina has become! The Lack of time spent in bars over the past 5 weeks has brought me down to getting very drunk after only just 4/5 bottles!
Perhaps the biggest event that has happened since my last blog involves me and my bike. Every Saturday morning at half 8, I have to go to the bakery and buy some bread rolls for breakfast (German’s love their bread!!!). Admittedly I was out the previous night and had little sleep on me, but I did not think much of it as the bakery is not far away and the road rarely sees any cars. BOY WAS I WRONG! Whilst cycling home still chuffed by ordering the bread rolls in German, I got slightly distracted by a hole that was being pierced into the bag of rolls by my bike’s breaks, the next thing I knew I was on the ground! Although there were no moving cars, there were plenty of parked cars and me being me found a way to stupidly crash into a parked car without even knowing it! I gained a few ugly bruises on my legs but I was more concerned about the car. Luckily the owner was very nice and did not mind new additional scratches as there were already quite a few scratches on the car. PRAISE THE LORD!

 Other things have happened but I feel this is getting too long now and I don’t want to bore you too much (that’s if you have gotten this far in reading it) so here is the short form list of other things I have done; 
Celebrated Ella’s (the eldest daughter) and steffi’s (the mother) birthday on the same day, broke an A string on a cello (whoops), slept in till 2:30pm (a beautiful day indeed!!), watched the sunset at the Alster (the lake in the centre of the city), got stalked by a man who kept persisting in trying to get me back to his place (it’s the ginger hair I think that brings the creeps out!) lost weight, gained too many holes in my jeans from playing with the boys, watched a movie in an open air cinema on the Alster, went to Miniatur Wunderland; a mini model city thing which was FREAKING AWESOME! (got to see a mini plane take off!!!) made my famous lasagne twice (because it is just that good) HAD MY FIRST PINT OF GUINESS IN HAMBURG! (it wasn’t as bad as it could have been) and wrote this blog which took nearly two weeks to complete. There is other things but I’m too lazy to remember and I’m sure you probably don’t care that much. 
From Miniatur Wunderland, out all the pictures, I chose this one,
can anyone see why?















the cinema on the Alster, because I'm a cultured mofo!















    

My first pint of the good stuff in Hamburg,
because you have never seen one of these right?

Friday, 7 September 2012

the friend hunt


I have never really had any shortage of friends when growing up and have never found it too difficult to make new friends (my three years in Newcastle are proof of this at least) but when you put a language barrier and a lack of social club/study meetings in there, turns out meeting peers is a fairly difficult thing to do. Don’t get me wrong, I have met many a wonderful person during my first three weeks just, usually that person is between the age of 6 and 12 or is a parent of a person between the age of 6 and 12. Acknowledging this problem of mines has made me do some stranger things to help me make friends, one of the main and probably least success is the getting lost method. I have done this about three times now, each time a failure. Basically I take my bike and go exploring with the goal to get lost so I have to talk to someone to find my way back (and maybe invite for coffee to be my friend). The main flaw in this plan is that fact that I am on my bike, cycling past people doesn’t make it so easy to talk to them. The first time I attempted this I missed an opportunity, a guy was lost and was asking me for directions IN ENGLISH. Unfortunately I wasn’t able to help him as I don’t know my way around the city that well. Although I did come away with a “friend” at the end of the day, whilst reading my book and listening to my ipod on my way home on the hochbahn (the metro/tube/train thingy) a 2 year old decided he wanted my bracelet and tried to mug me off it, and then to prove his street skills even further, after his mother put him into his pram he decided to pick pocket my ipod from me. Possible fagin’s gang member, I do have my suspicions.
The second method for making friends (take note all future au pairs) is facebook. As it turns out there is a facebook group for au pairs in Hamburg!! How amazing, more desperate people looking for friends like me! So far I have gained a few numbers, but yet to meet anyone due to working hours and how skint I am, but that’s soon to change. (it’s like online dating but with an au pair twist).
The third method is accepting any offers of “play dates” from nieces, cousins of the family or any of their friends. FRIENDS ARE NEEDED! I’m slowly forgetting how to communicate with adults who actually understand me. 

The goal is to have less pictures like this












and this (my fake friends)















and more pictures like this



                                                                                    and this





and maybe even this



In saying that, I have been lucky to have already known one person here from orchestra and through her I've been able to play in an orchestra this week! Must say, I had nearly forgotten just how much I love playing in ensembles. Afterwards there was of course, orchestra drinks but slightly more upmarket than we are use to. It took place in an Italian restaurant! The most successful evening making friends yet, just need to keep going back now to maintain their friendship. 

Quick Break down of activities ( I know this is the part you want to know really)
Went to a garden party, went to the park with the boys and their friend, tried to get lost on bike and busted my back wheel, started German lessons (close to making friends there) bought some wool, made a friendship bracelet with Fabi (because we are tots bessies now!) seen some amazing fireworks, went to orchestra, went to football practice, played some cello, played some horn, played some violin, played some guitar, played lots of football and last but not least GOT PAID!!